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LOL!
Anyways I make every member feel at home.
I write each one a welcome letter thus all the letter are unique.
I also go out of my way to use themes they don't hurt my member's eyes or whatever.
And I make sure everyone is having a great time.
I read all the post if I can and add my 2 cents.
Its the sense of family that will make people come back of more and will help you retain your current members and keep them active.